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The Secret by Rhonda Byrne

This time.... haha.. I guess in any courses you pursue, you will never get to run away from dissertation, thesis, research and you name it all. I personally think that, these stuff is one of your degree qualification. Hubby boy (studying medicine course) got research. Bestie Mei Kee gotta do her thesis in final year. Yi Ling (studying in UK) need to hand up hers also. Most of undergraduate gotta go through it. And with the finishing of my dissertation, it mark the end of my degree journey. My dissertation will be my dream in paperwork. Teehee... So, imma putting all my passion in it.

Follow your passion and success will come following you. 

Senior said, "it's just a long essay". This is motivating me. Me love journalism especially in topic I'm interested on.

This year, I thought I will go through a peaceful year as to put priority in studies and dissertation. However, I challenge myself, add up new activities. I am AIESECer. I am helping many many people realising their dreams thou its just minor effort. haha...

I am just me, one mind, one human, with 2 hands and 24 hours a day. To accomplish all I want, I gotta motivate myself a lot and in a whole new level. haha..

This is me, reading THE SECRET (vol 1) for 2nd time. When I read for 1st time, I was amazed by how mighty one mind can become. Totally blown me away. I got this feeling in me since young. I always got what I want even till now. Then, I understand the physics behind it. I tried numerous incident to try out the law of attraction, gratitude, love and everything. Everything works just like magic.

One experiment I wish to share is, I tried the attraction of money. Every night before bed, I thought of I am earning RM1000 a month. And then I spend it on here and there. Guess what, for that 2 months where I really focus my mind on, I seriously got this account of RM1000 going into my bank and I spend on what I want. I am just a mere student. Through some effort, I work part time on every Thursday ( the only day without class) collecting survey at University Malaya Medical Centre. This odd job seriously is not something I know. It just happen, I want RM1000 per month, someone need help for collection of survey and somehow I am the qualified one without transportation problem. In the middle of the month, I've just collected RM600. Where another RM400 going to come from..? I was surprised when my hostel owner pay me RM400 just because I recommended my room mate and friends to rent the room a year ago. I'm totally out of my mind. It doesn't matter any more weather it's RM600 or RM1000. What I am doing is to test how far these SECRET thingy can perform and it is REAL. The whole journey is like created for me to get what I wanted.

You called it lucky/ coincidence? I named it mastermind behind the scene. :P 

2nd time reading THE SECRET, I found out that most of the time in days, I am APPLYING those principals. What can be worse when you learn a new knowledge but don't apply it. Secret changed my life utterly. Every bits of my life, I see the laws of Secret. And I'm still enjoying the benefit of  it. I use Secret to help me in minor stuff. I am sure when the time has come, I am using it ultimately to achieve whatever I want.

Now, I'm going to type out the summary of every chapter for my OWN references only. Whenever I got low, this is my source of positivity to do well, do more and do happily.

The Secret Revealed

  • The Great Secret of Life is the law of attraction.
  • The law of attraction says like attracts like, so when you think a thought, you are also attracting like thoughts to you.
  • Thoughts are magnetic, and thoughts have a frequency. As you think thoughts, they are sent out into the Universe, and they magnetically attract all like things that are on the same frequency. Everything sent out returns to the source- you.
  • You are like a human transmission tower, transmitting a frequency with your thoughts. If you want to change anything in your life, change the frequency by changing your thoughts.
  • Your current thoughts are creating your future life. What you think about the most or focus on the most will appear as your life.
  • Your thoughts become things.

The Secret Made Simple

  • The law of attraction is a law of nature. It is as impartial as the law of gravity. 
  • Nothing can come into your experience unless you summon it through persistent thoughts.
  • To know what you're thinking, ask yourself how you are feeling. Emotions are valuable tools that instantly tell us what we are thinking.
  • It is impossible to feel bad and at the same time have good thoughts.
  • Your thoughts determine your frequency, and your feelings tell you immediately what frequency you are on. When you feel bad, you are on the frequency of drawing more bad things. When you feel good, you are powerfully attracting more good things to you. 
  • Secret Shifters, such as pleasant memories, nature, or your favourite music, can change your feelings and shift your frequency in an instant.
  • The feeling of love is the highest frequency you can emit. The greater the love you feel and emit, the greater the power you are harnessing. 

How to Use The Secret

  • Like Aladdin's Genie, the law of attraction grants our every command (your wish is my command)
  • The Creative Process helps you create what you want in three simple steps: ask, believe, and receive.
  • Asking the Universe for what you want is your opportunity to get clear about what you want. As you get clear in your mind, you have asked.
  • Believing involves acting, speaking, and thinking as though you have already received what you've asked for. When you emit the frequency of having received it, the law of attraction moves people, events, and circumstances for you to receive.
  • Receiving involves feeling the way you will feel once your desire has manifested. Feeling good now puts you on the frequency of what you want.
  • To lose weight, don't focus on "losing weight." Instead, focus on your perfect weight. Feel the feelings of your perfect weight, and you will summon it to you.
  • It takes no time for the Universe to manifest what you want. It is as easy to manifest one dollar as it is to manifest one million dollars.
  • Starting with something small, like a cup of coffee or parking spaces, is an easy way to experience the law of attraction in action. Powerfully intend to attract something small. As you experience the power you have to attract, you will move on to creating much bigger things.
  • Create your day in advance by thinking the way you want it to go, and you will create your life intentionally.

Powerful Processes

  • Expectation is a powerful attractive force. Expect the things you want, and don't expect the things you don't want.
  • Gratitude is a powerful process for shifting your energy and bringing more of what you want into your life. Be grateful for what you already have, and you will attract more good things.
  • Giving thanks for what you want in advance turbo-charges your desire and sends a more powerful signal out into the Universe.
  • Visualization is the process of creating pictures in your mind of yourselves enjoying what you want. When you visualize, you generate powerful thoughts and feelings of having it now. The law of attraction then returns that reality to you, just as you saw it in your mind. 
  • To use the law of attraction to your advantage, make it a habitual way of being, not just a one-time event.
  • At the end of every day, before you go to sleep go back through the events of the day. Any events or moments that were not what you wanted, replay them in your mind the way you wanted them to go.

The Secret to Money

  • To attract money, focus on wealth. It is impossible to bring more money into your life when you focus on the lack of it.
  • It is helpful to use your imagination and make-believe you already have the money you want. Play games of having wealth and you will feel better about money; as you feel better about it, more will flow into your life.
  • Feeling happy now is the fastest way to bring money into your life.
  • Make it your intention to look at everything you like and say to yourself, "I can afford that. I can buy that." You will shift your thinking and begin to feel better about money.
  • Give money in order to bring more of it into your life. When you are generous with money and feel good about sharing it, you are saying, 'I have plenty."
  • Visualize checks in the mail.
  • Tip the balance of your thoughts to wealth. Think wealth.

The Secret to Relationships

  • When you want to attract a relationship, make sure your thoughts, words, actions, and surroundings don't contradict your desires.
  • Your job is you. Unless you fill yourself up first, you have nothing to give anybody.
  • Treat yourself with love and respect, and you will attract people who show you love and respect.
  • When you feel bad about yourself, you block the love and instead you attract more people and situations that will continue to make you feel bad about you.
  • Focus on the qualities you love about yourself and the law of attraction will show you more great things about you.
  • To make a relationship work, focus on what you appreciate about the other person, and not your complaints. When you focus on the strengths, you will get more of them.

The Secret to Health

  • The placebo effect is an example of the law of attraction in action. When a patient truly believes that tablet is a cure, he receives what he believes and is cured.
  • "Focusing on perfect health" is something we can all do within ourselves, despite what may be happening on the outside.
  • Laughter attracts joy, releases negativity, and leads to miraculous cures.
  • Disease is held in the body by thought, by observation of the illness, and by the attention given to the illness. If you are feeling a little unwell, don't talk about it- unless you want more of it. If you listen to to people talk about their illness, you add energy to their illness. Instead, change the conversation to good things, and give powerful thoughts to seeing those people in health.
  • Beliefs about ageing are all in our minds, so release those thoughts from your consciousness. Focus on health and eternal youth.
  • Do not listen to society's messages about disease and ageing. Negative messages do not serve you. 

The Secret to the World

  • What you resist, you attract, because you are powerfully focused on it with emotion. To change anything, go within and emit a new signal with your thoughts and feelings.
  • Yo cannot help the world by focusing on the negative things. As you focus on the world's negative events, you not only add to them, but you also bring more negative things into your own life.
  • Instead of focusing on the world's problems, give your attention and energy to trust, love, abundance, education, and peace.
  • We will never run out of good things because there's more than enough to go around for everyone. Life is meant to be abundant.
  • You have the ability to tap into the unlimited supply through your thoughts and feelings and bring it into your experience.
  • Praise and bless everything in the world, and you will dissolve negativity and discord and align yourself with the highest frequency-love.

The Secret to You

  • Everything is energy. You are an energy magnet, so you electrically energize everything to you and electrically energize yourself to everything you want.
  • You are a spiritual being. You are energy, and energy cannot be created or destroyed- it just changes form. Therefore, the pure essence of you has always been and always will be.
  • The Universe emerges from thought. We are the creators not only of our own destiny but also of the Universe.
  • An unlimited supply of ideas is available to you. All knowledge, discoveries and inventions are in the Universal Mind as possibilities, waiting for the human mind to draw them forth. You hold everything in your consciousness.
  • We are all connected, and we are all One.
  • Let go of difficulties from your past, cultural codes, and social beliefs. You are the only one who can create the life you deserves. 
  • A short-cut to manifesting your desires is to see what you want as absolute fact.
  • Your power is in your thoughts, so stay aware. In other words, "Remember to remember."

The Secret to Life

  • You get to fill the blackboard of your life with whatever you want.
  • The only thing you need to do is feel good now.
  • The more you use the power within you. the more power you will draw through you.
  • The time to embrace your magnificence is now.
  • We are in the midst of glorious era. As we let go of limiting thoughts, we will experience humanity's true magnificence, in every area of creation.
  • Do what you love. If you don't know what brings you joy, ask, "What is my joy?' As you commit to your joy, you will attract an avalanche of joyful things because you are radiating joy. 
  • Now that you have learned the knowledge of The Secret, what you do with is up to you. Whatever you choose is right. The power is all yours. 


I know some of my friends do not believe in The Secret. The reasons of why, only they will know. I am just doing my role as a friend telling them it is a nice book and maybe they should give it a try. Who knows what will happen. :) Some people told me this book is fake and so much more negative comment. Maybe it just doesn't suit their act.

As for me, this book is a book of hope. Everyone can dream whatever they want. Pursue things they would like to go after. This book ONLY encourage. How many of us actually support our friends idea although they sound very ridiculous? Usually the reply is negative and break people hope. They are the dream reaper. People, who feel like giving up especially ill physically, psychologically , fed up in this world; the knowledge in this book, able to give them a hope, let them have some faith that tomorrow is a better day. Thou there may be no changes in a cancer patient, but at least, the patient still can hope. The knowledge in this book teach people to feel gratitude even in the worse situation. No matter in which kind of hardship, there are many things to be thankful for. This is a basic common act but we people tend to take things for granted and ignorant. Many many resentments toward everything even the slightest events. But but but, the knowledge of gratitude, can change something negative to positive and relatively make someone feel better. Aren't it important to feel as good as you are just born..?

Whenever I read this book, I feel confident in myself that everything I want to get and achieve is possible . I'm heavenly Motivated.

I would like to say a big THANK YOU Joanne Chua Siu Ting. For she is the one who recommend the book to me. With this, she is someone who gave impact in my life through the knowledge of a book. Xie Xie larh. Mmuacks.. May you achieve your goals too.

Mirror by Justin Timberlake

There is this saying in Chinese… “Fu Chi Xiang”. Don’t really know how to type it in Chinese. When I just got into relationship, one of our friends told us that; hey… both of you got that husband+ wife/ couple face. I thought it is weird. How can 2 people with different eyes, nose, mouth, face shape can look alike?

Later, I found out from an article that husband+ wife face simply means that your gestures, attitude, behaviors slowly takes after one another. You seem to do/ mimic your partner actions and vice versa. Slowly, both persons blend together becoming one. From different personality and facial expression ended up becoming similar within a long time frame. That is why when we see older married couple, they look harmony being together.

With this, I relate it to my current favorite song. Mirror by Justin Timberlake. Mei Kee told me this song is dedicated to his grandparents. “Fu chi xiang” just like his lyrics, is a reflection of your soul mate. Just like a mirror, your mirror staring back at you. When you look at your couple, it is like you yourself looking back to yourself.

Hopefully wait till I get till old, I can see myself in him; a reflection of myself.
Let’s play this video and sing along. Really very sweet. Le meltz…

P.S/ Mei Kee say must listen to the full version 8:21 minutes one. 
Or, find his live presentation only got feel wor. :)


[Verse 1]
Aren't you somethin' to admire, cause your shine is somethin' like a mirror
And I can't help but notice, you reflect in this heart of mine
If you ever feel alone and the glare makes me hard to find
Just know that I'm always parallell on the other side

[Pre-Hook]
Cause with your hand in my hand and a pocket full of soul
I can tell you there's no place we couldn't go
Just put your hand on the glass, I'll be tryin' to pull you through
You just gotta be strong

[Hook]
Cause I don't wanna lose you now
I'm lookin' right at the other half of me
The vacancy that sat in my heart
Is a space that now you hold
Show me how to fight for now
And I'll tell you baby, it was easy
Comin' back into you once I figured it out
You were right here all along
It's like you're my mirror
My mirror staring back at me
I couldn't get any bigger
With anyone else besides of me
And now it's clear as this promise
That we're making two reflections into one
Cause it's like you're my mirror
My mirror staring back at me, staring back at me

[Verse 2]
Aren't you somethin', an original, cause it doesn't seem merely assembled
And I can't help but stare cause I see truth somewhere in your eyes
I can't ever change without you, you reflect me, I love that about you
And if I could, I would look at us all the time

[Pre-Hook]
Cause with your hand in my hand and a pocket full of soul
I can tell you there's no place we couldn't go
Just put your hand on the glass, I'll be tryin' to pull you through
You just gotta be strong

[Hook]
Cause I don't wanna lose you now
I'm lookin' right at the other half of me
The vacancy that sat in my heart
Is a space that now you hold
Show me how to fight for now
And I'll tell you baby, it was easy
Comin' back into you once I figured it out
You were right here all along
It's like you're my mirror
My mirror staring back at me
I couldn't get any bigger
With anyone else besides of me
And now it's clear as this promise
That we're making two reflections into one
Cause it's like you're my mirror
My mirror staring back at me, staring back at me

[Bridge]
Yesterday is history
Tomorrow's a mystery
I can see you lookin' back at me
Keep your eyes on me
Baby, keep your eyes on me

[Hook]
Cause I don't wanna lose you now
I'm lookin' right at the other half of me
The vacancy that sat in my heart
Is a space that now you hold
Show me how to fight for now
And I'll tell you baby, it was easy
Comin' back into you once I figured it out
You were right here all along
It's like you're my mirror
My mirror staring back at me
I couldn't get any bigger
With anyone else besides of me
And now it's clear as this promise
That we're making two reflections into one
Cause it's like you're my mirror
My mirror staring back at me, staring back at me

[Hook 2] x10
You are you are the love of my life

[Verse 3]
Baby you're the inspiration for this precious song
And I just wanna see your face light up since you put me on
So now I say goodbye to the old me, it's already gone
And I can't wait wait wait wait wait to get you home
Just to let you know, you are

[Hook 2] x8
You are you are the love of my life

[Verse 4]
Girl you're my reflection, all I see is you
My reflection, in everything I do
You're my reflection and all I see is you
My reflection, in everything I do

[Hook 2] x16
You are you are the love of my life

Knowing if he is the right one



Le boy: Why you don't want to find other guy..? 

Le girl: Because you are the only one able to make me cry. I will get heartache, pain and sorrow when you bully me or when I can't get in touch with you. I am the weakest when I am with you. When you are able to make me cry, this means I really really love you a lot. :')