Hello… recently I just found out that a few people around me not doing
so well.
Am I really living in my fantasy dreamy land..?
Is it the reality I am facing is not so realistic..?
They: are few people who struggle because of $.
Some people, spend more than they earn. Mostly because of this reason,
they face a lot of difficulties.
Some people, not even have enough to spend for necessity. They are
working very hard to achieve peaceful days.
Is it not applicable to spend wisely and earn accordingly..?
What I mean is, don’t be greedy. Those luxury, wants and branded
unnecessary stuff are not that important actually. Just earn, enough for
continuous saving and make a living.
We doesn’t need to live like those high class people do we..?
Sometimes, the lesser material you possess, you got nothing much to
lose.
I’ve tried both living condition.
A- Having plenty money
and spend like a boss getting, eating, enjoying entertainment
B- Having a few penny in
my purse and only can have this few choices of food, no or less buying and all
time free entertainment.
Seriously, I feel stressed up when I live in A. I feel
wasted. All those money spend on A can actually do a lot other things. Such as
making fake tooth for daddy, buy new sofa set, give my parents for them to buy
good food. I want to be filial. I don’t mine using little on myself and give.
For me, money is just a digit. A barter system. Money is used to trade with
something I want myself or for others. Other than that, it got no other usage.
C- A bunch of friends
that encourage me to use money like water and are actually using money earned
by their parents. Their spending power are same or even higher than those
working personnel.
D- A bunch of friends that truly understand
friendship and spend minimum amount. They are all independent and are mature to
know what they are using, having and spending now are all prepared by their
parents. Their authority is still limited. With wise thinking in spending their
time in appropriate activities and gaining the priority in life such as
education and basic necessity by themselves without burdening their parents.
So, I do mix around. Whenever I am at both situation, I am happy.
Because I got to hang out with friends. Is just that the happiness from C is
more expensive. And I’m more comfortable to hang out with D.
Can money represent love..? I’ve encountered uncles giving cheque during
Chinese New Year. Does that mean giving me RM2 aunties doesn’t love as much as
giving a cheque uncle..?
Can money represent wisdom..?
Can money represent filial..?
Can money represent time..?
Can money….
Money indeed can do a lot of thing and ease our days. But how many are
actually being eased by it..?
Money is a very clever calculations. It needs your sacrifice before you
can get it and once you get it, it will run away very quickly from you. The
time you spend is always longer than the time money stay with you. Cruel right.
So, be smart in making the decision weather is the amount of money worth your
amount of sacrifice while earning them.
I am very simple, I plan to live my live free from money burden. If I’ve
got this much, I only spend this much. I earn according to what I want. The
more I want, the more hardworking I am. Most of the time, I choose not to trade
my time in exchange with money. Later, I do not desire for anything that need
lots of money to achieve with (other than property la. Coz it can help me money
grow money without me working ma). I believe in simplicity and peace. Because
most of the thing I want, just need very very very little amount of money to
achieve.
I want 3 meals and 1 teatime a day
I want normal 8 hours working hour, 8 hours of sleep, and 8 hours of fun
time
I want spend time with family and friends
I want a safe and clean house to stay
I want my parents to live peacefully
I want travel to another country yearly
I want my vicinity furnished with basic necessity
I want to have the best in living which aren’t luxury
I just want a peaceful life without $$$ struggle