Fake self limitation

Since I have some time to shout out, let have some fun blogging. Hehe

A lot of things can be said here. All walks of life. Different people encounter different situation. 

Just recently:

A: the dramatic review of how should a group of people book hotel for accommodation oversea for the first time. Haha… I won’t say my judgement is correct or others are wrong. Instead, I would really sit down, listen to you and understand from what point of view you stand so stiff. I want to understand and see it from your perspective. Teach me will you..? If you can’t persuade me, and you just do whatever you want that is not convincing enough as of what we suggested, I see a problem there and must have a solution right..?

B: the young hot teen that in love. Many mystery and question marks from passerby of their life. We guess a lot, ask a lot and observe much. All you can do, as long as both of you are blissful. This is much more important than any other people judgment. 

C: the 18 years old bride, my neighbor and 40 years old groom. In life, everything is possible. I am sorry to be rude and bless both of you to have a happy family and new start. It’s a tough road, tougher than what I am facing. I am really impressed by her survival skill that never gives up no matter what. Please lead a good life!

D: huh… I dunnoe what kind of love season is this. Is either I make that person cry or emo or I just ask something very wrong at the very time. Hahaha… twice + my bestie got willingly cheated by his ex n sometimes is her current bf. Once it’s a past tense, just let it go bah, hai zi. Don’t ever cling on something that doesn't belong to you. Lao tian yeye had prepared something better for you.

Recently I had finished reading a book tittle How to get from where you Are to where you want to Be. So it’s A-> B.

And I noticed, this is just an ordinary book. For what people living on this earth need this kind of inspirational book..? What for I am spending hours and hours reading many them..? Slowly I noticed, human being is really terrible. Really stupid for not doing what they want, getting lead by the blind and continue to follow the blind, limiting oneself to enjoy whatever we had in this world, this current spinning beautiful awesome world. While reading these books, I see the world as a better place not because everyone changed to be good. But because I changed to see the good in everything even very very worst situation. How worst can it be when you still alive..?

Why do you have a miserable job..?

Why do you have a miserable relationship..?

Why do you skip classes..?

Why do you sleep in class..?

Why do you think living penniless is suffering..?

Why do you ever jealous of someone doing better than you..?

Why do you must have the latest designer brand pieces of clothes, handbag, shoes n etc..?

Why do you demand so much and making your life look so pathetic..?

Ans: Get a life babe~ if you don’t like what you’re doing right now, make the leap and do what you want that can achieve what you like. Because doing what you like -> searching happiness eventually life is so much fun.

Because you love your job, even if washing 8 hours of laundry is fun to you.

Because that is not someone for you, and you held on tight, that’s why you are hurting you yourself. No one words nor can thinking hurt you and only you yourself for not going out of the barrier / limitation you made for yourself. Try taking a step out. I bet 99% of you don’t want. Simply because of the clingy feeling you had. after break up, u said i still miss him at nights. What do you get from closing yourself inside the cell..?

5 years ago, he said he love you, it’s true that you are his love for his lifetime. Sweet right. 

Now, he told you he no longer in love with you, he also meant it! So, his lifetime for you are the duration of 5 years.

After leaving, he is a newborn again.

No worries, you can continue to have that clingy feeling for anyone that hurt you or u cannot let got. One fine day, when you took the step out, finally and you’ll find how wasted those moments are. Well, you may find it’s good that u mourn for your relationship so called that you treasured that relationship. HA-HA-HA. Tell me, are you still going to be the same again and again after getting hurt or your heart got a deep scar and you acting as if everything is back to original state. Even you, who keeping the relation is tired and can’t stand any longer, Nobody is going to blame you to go through and pass away those painful moment. You no need to report nor tell anyone. As long as you’re happy, it’s good enough for the first step. I am telling this, because I see no point in it. Oopsi… please move on. look forward!

Me, myself too did something stupid like this. I got sad for some fake reasons and make myself enclosed. I persuade people to let go, yet myself can’t let go of some bad memories that happen in my relationship. Eventually holding negativity brings negativity. Somehow and sometime the ticking bomb explodes. After that I just notice this is so stupid and ridiculous. I’m holding on something does not even exist that I limited myself for loving him more, caring him more and making him miserable for not knowing anything while I act like I am so generous that holding those freaking stupid grudges when he let go of everything and willing to make our love life better day after day. Finally it tore him off. He is patient enough to wait for me. Thank god I realize soon when looking him suffering much and I am making myself suffer but now able moving forward. When I am awake, it is the worst nightmare that is lucky for I am able to get rid of it as soon as possible. Let’s create and walk a funky life. When your relationship can fix, held tight yea. Don’t ever give up!

If you don’t enjoy anything that you do now, quit! Stop wasting and just see what you interest most and get your own life. You got a life when you pursue for your own dreams. It’s easy like body building, spending time with friends, travelling and more. Most people are half awake or dead walking. Yea.. They aren't living to the fullest. Do they really understand their life purpose..? I see many multimillionaires enjoying their life while being rich. It’s because they know what they are doing, why they are there and achieve their dream. Making them rich is a side dish, but the passion they life while doing what they love and created and epic lifetime is what they will never forget in their life. Their challenges and breakthrough is a love.

That’s all from me. Every day is freaking interesting in this funky life especially being born in Generation Y enjoying everything through a click and some touch. :P

and i am facing all kinds of assignments, exam, conflicts yet life still goes on right...