Powerful choleric + Introvert = Teddy Lim

Am so not me to leave my blog not updated. Last time is like weekly or fortnightly. Now… since I’ve decided to update those stories that are interesting in walks of life, I will not put in my boring daily routine. 

So, if you’ve read/ listen/ once people told you about personality; there is 4 main group types and from these four, you can mix and match that would become 16 types of personalities that created mostly who we are now. Hehe.. Each of the personality has their unique way of behaving. It is seriously an eye opening event. Correct me if I am giving wrong information. For more details please read this book “Personality Plus”.

Sorry that it's in Malay. I tried to produce one but failed.

Before you’re pointing finger at others, look at yourself first. Don’t always find fault n weakness in others. Bak kata pepatah, “ kuman di seberang nampak, gajah di depan tidak dilihat”. Firstly, look into the mirror.

Who are you..?

How well you know yourself and accepted yourself to be the way it is..?

Then, you can comment on others. If you’re not that good after all, you are most welcome to shut up :D Most misunderstanding happen due to lack of communication and understanding. Communication is freaking important in any event to anyone. Don’t be shy about it. Understanding is your willingness to know. If you don’t take initiative to communicate, will you ever get the information to understand..?

So, after living for 21yrs, I understand myself day by day. It ain’t an easy process. Coz I change every second. Any minute, my decision may be different according to mentality n situation as well as mood. See, there is a lot of a factor. However, some of the most inner; core of yourself will never change that easily not matter what happen. For example, my powerful choleric personality. Inside me, I've a very strong powerful choleric; a possessive me. I noticed it during my primary school while doing group projects. My friend mentions to me for the very first time that she does not want to join me. And that she would not want to be my friend anymore. Of course I got hurt. But, I slowly analyze myself. Did I make the wrong decision..? I've hurt my friend. I apologize if I ever offended her and let’s be friend again. I treasure my friends very much that motivate me to change for a better person. Slowly, I am more open minded. Ask Mei Kee how tremendously I've changed compared to 10 yrs back. You’ll be shocked the powerful +dictator me n now the considerate cute teddy. Haha..

Yea.. I joined many many activities back then and meet different types of people. So, I try to understand that everyone have their very unique attitude and personality. When you deal with them according to their most comfortable way, it’ll be good. You may not be their best, yet it is not the worst.

When someone tells me, he or she got attitude problem, I don’t discriminate. I understand that they are not to the extend thinking in other people point of view. I took initiative to communicate and understand their perspective is limited. Hence, they are unable to join the crowd. Give them time and practice. Whatever I know shall remain silent. Slowly, they grow and learn themselves.

Below is a text I copied from Facebook. I found it interesting and would like to share. Hehe.. T.T somehow the text was removed. It had gone missing. Haizz…  There is a lot of stuff about introvert. And I can explain each unique character of an introvert since I am one of them. One of it, introvert doesn't like to social. Yea.. I agree with it very much. Not that social is a bad thing, is just I don’t feel comfortable. You’re like being someone else coz  you need to pretend you’re listening n pay attention while my mind is flattering to another sky. Haha.. I force myself to listen because it’s rude when people is talking you don’t give attention. After social, I am like dead tired. I've limit in my social battery. After some time, I must go home! Is a must. I need my own space. Without doing anything all by myself, I still feel happy. Ask an introvert, have they every feel lonely alone..? I might say yes to set you back but I actually enjoy every seconds of it. Muahaha.. My friend named it, “she is in her own world”; my reply is I'm loving it!

With this missing introvert text, you could actually get to understand me more without me expressing. Many question marks about why I behave like that also will be gone. By then, without more, you could guess my next move. Isn't it awesome to express and not impress yourself..? I felt like I am light weighted.

I'm sorry. Sincerely deep inside my heart,

I felt guilty for hurting you my friend,

Tongue has no bone,

Yet it’s sharp enough to stab into your heart,

Your tears are my weaknesses,

I hope, wish and pray that you’ll be happy no matter what you do,

Promise me you’ll stay strong.

God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO!