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My Rommate, Michevil.

Instead of letting u guys know my week 3 boringly, why not I tell you a tale.

Thank you for coming to my life.
Hi, room-mate J I doubt one fine day you will be reading this. Finger cross. :P
Do u ever have the experience to share the same room with a stranger..?

Since young, I don’t sleep alone. Never! It just doesn't work. I’ll feel lonely. Trust me, it’s lonely. I'm a little chick. Little chick will die if u rear them alone. Till now, I've encounter 2 girls as my room-mate  Thank god both were nice human. I mean they are compatible with my attitude. Not everyone can endure whatever the others are doing. Imagine we… wait.. No need for imagine. We had different background, memories, beliefs, growing up environment, teachings, and perceptions. When there is no communication, everything can be so wrong. Yea, I've encounter that. Hmnn.. Shall I reflect what kind of room-mate I am.. I think I'm neutral. Of course no. I am someone who got a strong attitude de. Haha… My first was Lay Hoong. She is from Cheras. Also my senior during diploma. By fate, we stayed at NO.1 house. Sharing the room at downstairs of a 12 rooms, able to accommodate 20paxs terrace house. Look how marvellous this house is! OMG… soon, very soon, around 6 months later, we shifted out together gather because we beh-tahan the agent and the horrible house. Speaking of this house gave me goose bumps. It shall not be told any more. It’s nightmare.

Actually my main topic is Miche Miche. Since I moved in here, an apartment, I've waited a room-mate  Desperately I guess. Coz renting a middle room all by myself is a little burden. Secondly, I wanted a companion. Hmn.. When you’re out in this cool society, you would want someone with you. No matter how quiet each other is, no talking or asking question, still, there is someone know about your existence that you’re safe and sound sleeping on that bed every night.

I’m actually grateful for Miche existence in my life. I think she is created by my imagination. In an ideal, my minds of course I want share a middle room. In reality, it’s just an ngam ngam, just right, no little, no extra of space if 2 person stay together gather. Plus the no Wi-Fi, no air conditioner, 5th floor staying with owner condition. I doubt any girls would want to stay a place like that. But there is. She is Miche. Starting, we did have some manner with each other. Hahaha.. This is common I guess. Not to say now we do not have. Now, we are more comfortable with each other, Moreover, interesting facts how she get to know me and the room. I guess it’s the law of attraction. My desire is so great that everything made possible. I remembered that time was during my 1st intern. Mean 1.3.2011. 2 years ago. I was just about to give up on this room, this house and stay with some other house sharing with others. Blame financial burden. I really really didn’t want to leave this house, this room. I found comfort and care by my owner. They are more humane and compassionate to any other person I found when I all alone at KL. It is better to stay with owner as there will be someone taking care of the house condition rather than all students. If you experience before, some people can just be ignorant enough not to care the other person life or death. It’s so common here. That’s why I dislike KL. It’s a place full of selfishness. Rare. Really rare to find a soul that will at least have a second thought for another person. Then I got to know Miche from FB that connect us from finding room at Taylor’s page. I am so hoping that she will share the room with me. We chat quite a while. I told her everything about Taylors that I know as a friend/ stranger point of view and then the relationship grew. Soon, she gave up on the room she booked. With help from Win Jen, my ex housemate, she took pictures of our house. I posted it online so Miche can have a brief imagination of the house. She mentions that the room was quite small. She din mind. I said I would sacrifice the study table. The bed frame is hers and the bed would be mine. She needs to bring her own mattress. This was how desperate I was. However, I was honest and sincere. I did tell her everything so her expectation is not fall when she stayed here.
This is how we started. We had dinner for the first night. And then, continuously sleep together gather lor.

Haizzz… When the room has 2 different owners, both different personalities, problem started.
I woke up later. I set my alarm once and when the first ring happens, I off it. Her alarm ring for 5 times before she actually wakes up. And alarm sometimes can’t wake her up at all.
She wash all her clothes once a week, not even bother to take back/ fold from the hanging area, while I squeeze all my clothes together with hers.
I sleep decently, although every night I need to make noise (speak to hubby boy before oioi). She had automatic orchestra on for whole night. But I like it actually. I sleep soundly when there is snore. I got used to it trained by mom. Haha..
I cooked for her, washed her clothes (not now anymore) did all I could.
I clean too much. Weekly I sweep the floor. Monthly washed the toilet and wipe the windows in our room. She is someone who has a maid to clean her house.
Yes. I admit I am damn stressed up and hate it to clean the toilet. I normally do it during my hatred mood. The toilet stinks. So, I deep scrub every possible corner. In the end of the day, I’m a happy kid. Coz when the toilet smells good and clean, all my anger is removed. I got this weird attitude don’t know from where. I guess I learnt it from movie. To use up the extra violent energy towards dirt.
Sometimes, her architecture stuff is messy, and I am an organized freak. No eyes see.
And she is someone who can sleep late at night while I love to go to bed early.
Just yesterday I was so frustrated that she did not throw rubbish and the floor was full of our hair. 
Huh.. It’s been there for like a week. We no longer stay with owner. So most of the stuff we need to take care by ourselves. (i am also pms-ing that time)
There was her mattress she brought from Seremban that needed to be thrown away. She can be very ignorant and kept it there till I don’t know when. There is no harm if she keeps on keeping it. I just wonder, like how does she thinks that nothing seem she can be responsible of.

 Guess what, despite all, I am able to accept who she is and she never complaint my bossy-ness attitude. She did follow my advice. Miche never dislike my powerful choleric attitude. Maybe she does but never once voice out in front of me. >< She is very guai.

On the other hand, we did share a unique relationship. I was surprised when she mentioned her uncle stayed at Seremban, my hometown. Later did I know her uncle just stay behind my house. Small world aite. There was once we took train and went Seremban together. She got wedding to attend and I fetched her back. There was once she got her bag snatched and couldn’t contact anyone. She was scared, crying and stayed at Damansara police station. I remembered that day was my Diploma result announcement day. If I was not mistaken her uncle came all the way from Seremban just to find her. Imagine a girl without phone, no money, no house keys. Basically nothing. No food, no place to stay and shocked after getting snatched. Crying badly and luckily she got an uncle who is willing to take care of her. I’m worried about her too that night hoping everything is ease for her.

We may not be perfect to each other, but we do appreciate each other existence. There is nothing difficult to share a room with another person. Just tolerate each other assuming that the person is having a hard time too. We know each of us had our problem to face. Have our course work to do. Have social conflict. We are being parted with family members to achieve our dreams. Nobody cooks for us. Nobody washes our clothes. Nobody nag us (maybe through phone). All we want after whole hectic day entertaining everyone was a place for comfort, rest and be ourselves. Do things we love to, slack as much as we want like how we used to do in our actual home. 

I may not be with you for long. There is only another year to go. And I’m done with Taylors. I hope we can have a great last year together. Just cook dinner, tong sui and pillow talk.
I felt warm when Miche say, you’re back late tonight.
I felt warm that you care for me.
I felt warm when I say, did you slept at studio room yesterday..? You’re not home last night.
I felt warm when we greeted each other goodnight.
I felt warm when we cooked together.
I felt warm when we ate together.
I felt warm when we did spring cleaning together.
I felt warm when I am watching drama and you’re looking at it too and laugh.
I felt warm when we understand each other preference without many words.

And this is the only picture we had despite staying together gather for 2 yrs ++.
 and got 3rd party also. T.T
Okayy.. i do wish you could help to wash toilet and throw rubbish @.@

T3ddy 
XOXO


Hehe.. I kept this topic very long le. Now got the feel to shout out! Coz just finish my IMC midterm and tomorrow is PH. Credit to PH I don’t want to do anything. Tonight, let it be my night wills you..? <3 data-blogger-escaped-font="">

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