Thank you for coming
to my life.
Hi, room-mate J I doubt one fine day you will be reading
this. Finger cross. :P
Do u ever have the
experience to share the same room with a stranger..?
Since young, I don’t
sleep alone. Never! It just doesn't work. I’ll feel lonely. Trust me, it’s lonely. I'm a little chick. Little chick will die if u rear them alone. Till now, I've encounter 2 girls as my room-mate Thank god both were nice human. I mean they
are compatible with my attitude. Not everyone can endure whatever the others
are doing. Imagine we… wait.. No need for imagine. We had different background,
memories, beliefs, growing up environment, teachings, and perceptions. When
there is no communication, everything can be so wrong. Yea, I've encounter
that. Hmnn.. Shall I reflect what kind of room-mate I am.. I think I'm neutral. Of
course no. I am someone who got a strong attitude de. Haha… My first was Lay
Hoong. She is from Cheras. Also my senior during diploma. By fate, we stayed at
NO.1 house. Sharing the room at downstairs of a 12 rooms, able to accommodate
20paxs terrace house. Look how marvellous this house is! OMG… soon, very soon,
around 6 months later, we shifted out together gather because we beh-tahan the
agent and the horrible house. Speaking of this house gave me goose bumps. It
shall not be told any more. It’s nightmare.
Actually my main
topic is Miche Miche. Since I moved in here, an apartment, I've waited a room-mate Desperately I guess. Coz renting a middle room all by myself is a
little burden. Secondly, I wanted a companion. Hmn.. When you’re out in this
cool society, you would want someone with you. No matter how quiet each other
is, no talking or asking question, still, there is someone know about your
existence that you’re safe and sound sleeping on that bed every night.
I’m actually
grateful for Miche existence in my life. I think she is created by my
imagination. In an ideal, my minds of course I want share a middle room. In
reality, it’s just an ngam ngam, just right, no little, no extra of space if 2
person stay together gather. Plus the no Wi-Fi, no air conditioner, 5th
floor staying with owner condition. I doubt any girls would want to stay a
place like that. But there is. She is Miche. Starting, we did have some manner
with each other. Hahaha.. This is common I guess. Not to say now we do not
have. Now, we are more comfortable with each other, Moreover, interesting facts
how she get to know me and the room. I guess it’s the law of attraction. My
desire is so great that everything made possible. I remembered that time was
during my 1st intern. Mean 1.3.2011. 2 years ago. I was just about
to give up on this room, this house and stay with some other house sharing with
others. Blame financial burden. I really really didn’t want to leave this
house, this room. I found comfort and care by my owner. They are more humane
and compassionate to any other person I found when I all alone at KL. It is
better to stay with owner as there will be someone taking care of the house
condition rather than all students. If you experience before, some people can
just be ignorant enough not to care the other person life or death. It’s so
common here. That’s why I dislike KL. It’s a place full of selfishness. Rare.
Really rare to find a soul that will at least have a second thought for another
person. Then I got to know Miche from FB that connect us from finding room at Taylor’s
page. I am so hoping that she will share the room with me. We chat quite a while.
I told her everything about Taylors that I know as a friend/ stranger point of
view and then the relationship grew. Soon, she gave up on the room she booked.
With help from Win Jen, my ex housemate, she took pictures of our house. I
posted it online so Miche can have a brief imagination of the house. She mentions
that the room was quite small. She din mind. I said I would sacrifice the study
table. The bed frame is hers and the bed would be mine. She needs to bring her
own mattress. This was how desperate I was. However, I was honest and sincere.
I did tell her everything so her expectation is not fall when she stayed here.
This is how we
started. We had dinner for the first night. And then, continuously sleep
together gather lor.
Haizzz… When the room
has 2 different owners, both different personalities, problem started.
I woke up later. I
set my alarm once and when the first ring happens, I off it. Her alarm ring for
5 times before she actually wakes up. And alarm sometimes can’t wake her up at
all.
She wash all her
clothes once a week, not even bother to take back/ fold from the hanging area,
while I squeeze all my clothes together with hers.
I sleep decently, although
every night I need to make noise (speak to hubby boy before oioi). She had
automatic orchestra on for whole night. But I like it actually. I sleep soundly
when there is snore. I got used to it trained by mom. Haha..
I cooked for her,
washed her clothes (not now anymore) did all I could.
I clean too much.
Weekly I sweep the floor. Monthly washed the toilet and wipe the windows in our
room. She is someone who has a maid to clean her house.
Yes. I admit I am
damn stressed up and hate it to clean the toilet. I normally do it during my
hatred mood. The toilet stinks. So, I deep scrub every possible corner. In the
end of the day, I’m a happy kid. Coz when the toilet smells good and clean, all
my anger is removed. I got this weird attitude don’t know from where. I guess I
learnt it from movie. To use up the extra violent energy towards dirt.
Sometimes, her
architecture stuff is messy, and I am an organized freak. No eyes see.
And she is someone
who can sleep late at night while I love to go to bed early.
Just yesterday I
was so frustrated that she did not throw rubbish and the floor was full of our
hair.
Huh.. It’s been there for like a week. We no longer stay with owner. So
most of the stuff we need to take care by ourselves. (i am also pms-ing that time)
There was her
mattress she brought from Seremban that needed to be thrown away. She can be
very ignorant and kept it there till I don’t know when. There is no harm if she
keeps on keeping it. I just wonder, like how does she thinks that nothing seem
she can be responsible of.
Guess what, despite
all, I am able to accept who she is and she never complaint my bossy-ness
attitude. She did follow my advice. Miche never dislike my powerful choleric
attitude. Maybe she does but never once voice out in front of me. >< She is very guai.
On the other hand,
we did share a unique relationship. I was surprised when she mentioned her
uncle stayed at Seremban, my hometown. Later did I know her uncle just stay
behind my house. Small world aite. There was once we took
train and went Seremban together. She got wedding to attend and I fetched her
back. There was once she got her bag snatched and couldn’t contact anyone. She
was scared, crying and stayed at Damansara police station. I remembered that
day was my Diploma result announcement day. If I was not mistaken her uncle
came all the way from Seremban just to find her. Imagine a girl without phone,
no money, no house keys. Basically nothing. No food, no place to stay and
shocked after getting snatched. Crying badly and luckily she got an uncle who
is willing to take care of her. I’m worried about her too that night hoping
everything is ease for her.
We may not be
perfect to each other, but we do appreciate each other existence. There is
nothing difficult to share a room with another person. Just tolerate each other
assuming that the person is having a hard time too. We know each of us had our
problem to face. Have our course work to do. Have social conflict. We are being
parted with family members to achieve our dreams. Nobody cooks for us. Nobody
washes our clothes. Nobody nag us (maybe through phone). All we want after
whole hectic day entertaining everyone was a place for comfort, rest and be
ourselves. Do things we love to, slack as much as we want like how we used to
do in our actual home.
I may not be with
you for long. There is only another year to go. And I’m done with Taylors. I
hope we can have a great last year together. Just cook dinner, tong sui and
pillow talk.
I felt warm when Miche
say, you’re back late tonight.
I felt warm that
you care for me.
I felt warm when I
say, did you slept at studio room yesterday..? You’re not home last night.
I felt warm when we
greeted each other goodnight.
I felt warm when we
cooked together.
I felt warm when we
ate together.
I felt warm when we
did spring cleaning together.
I felt warm when I
am watching drama and you’re looking at it too and laugh.
I felt warm when we
understand each other preference without many words.
And this is the only picture we had despite staying together gather for 2 yrs ++.
and got 3rd party also. T.T
Okayy.. i do wish you could help to wash toilet and throw rubbish @.@
T3ddy
XOXO
Hehe.. I kept this
topic very long le. Now got the feel to shout out! Coz just finish my IMC midterm
and tomorrow is PH. Credit to PH I don’t want to do anything. Tonight, let it
be my night wills you..? <3 data-blogger-escaped-font="">
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